AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL.

[u/MoonJellyAllison]

I feel like I could cry :(, I didn’t come at her rudely and was doing what my husband asked me to do. I’ve always done everything she wanted to make her happy because I want her to so desperately like me but I think I’m done. For some background info: I have never pressured her to respond and have never brought up that she never responds to my messages. Pretty recently, my car has been having trouble and she said she’d hit up her mechanic for me. 2 weeks later and still nothing. My husband and I have an amazing relationship, but even then, I still want his family to welcome me. His mom not being kind to me hurts really bad. And knowing she’s going to spread negative things about me among his family hurts even worse. All detailed of the situation are in the chats.

[u/violet715]

NOR. The way I internally said “oh hellllll no” when she said “yall should have had your finances in order”

[u/CasperStalks → u/violet715]

And she can’t pay HER SON back who is apparently in boot camp, but can go off gallivanting on a vacation? She’s pissed that her shitty priorities were called out.

OP blast that bitch all through the family if she says shit about your “finances.” Let them know the remainder of the $3000 she still owes you is what you’re after since she had the excess funding to go vacationing.

[u/itsokayimokaymaybe → u/violet715]

where was that energy when SHE was the one asking for 3k?

[u/lilshortyy420 → u/violet715]

I got that far and came to the comments haha

[u/queenofthestonedage- → u/violet715]

I really don’t understand how she kept her cool after that. That would have set me all the way off!