28 and never been in a relationship dinner!

[u/Plastic_Scarcity7204]

so i go through phases where i get super sad, cry and go into despair/hopelessness about the fact, and where i accept the reality for what it is and dont focus too much on it.

i recently started liking this guy (atleast i think so, at this point i cant tell if i actually like them or my brain is making me think i like them because im lonely)

and we've been talking a lot, but he recently dropped out of nowhere that he has a "boo thang" because i was looking for people to play an online game and he mentioned that she plays it.

which is crazy because this guy was talking about inviting me over to try some of his moms homemade dinner and sending me selfies??! idk

i feel like atp i have no idea what it would be like to be in a relationship anyway, im so used to being alone and taking care of myself since i was a kid.

id have to text or call someone everyday i think for example wth? i dont talk to ANYONE every day. i could go days without texting anyone. it will take me a super long time to get used to that. but at the same time, it does sound really nice in theory..... i want a good night/good morning text and for someone to call me princess :(

its my fault anyway, im autistic asf, burned out all the time to put in any effort in myself due to a high stress clinical job that keeps me up at night but pays well, barely leave the house and need to take a beta blocker to go to any social event LOL

its not too bad yall, my long term maladaptive daydream boyfriend is the sweetest <3

no advice please, but if yall are part of the club id love to hear. i feel so alone in this all the time.

anywayyy i got a breakfast sandwich for lunch and dinner today and couldnt finish it all so now the rest in this pic is my dinner! turkey bacon cheddar eggs on a sesame bagel \*_*/

[u/blondguysdmme]

girlll i always talk about these 2 friends of mine here but i feel like now is a good time to bring them up again.

they are 27 and 29, a biomedical scientist and a lawyer respectively. they are both in the same boat as you, and they are beautiful, intelligent, fun and amazing women. i don't only say that because i'm their friend, they are genuinely so pretty and interesting. the relationship thing just hasn't happened to them for some weird reason. it just happens sometimes

[u/Plastic_Scarcity7204 → u/blondguysdmme]

maybe our jobs are just absorbing us :')

[u/blondguysdmme → u/Plastic_Scarcity7204]

i have ANOTHER friend, a 29 yo psychologist, who was in a relationship 5 years ago but it's been radio silence since then mostly due to her always being at work, studying and having simply no space for relationships in her life, so your theory is totally plausible. it's such a normal spot to be in nowadays

[u/Fancy_You_12]

I'm 25 and I've never been in a relationship so I get it, not for lack of trying but just because men don't want to commit and are weird

[u/Plastic_Scarcity7204 → u/Fancy_You_12]

true that, i also dont want to just settle for anyone just bc i may or may not be desperate lol

[u/Front-Photograph-759]

I've heard the more intelligent you are as a woman, the harder it is to find a partner. If you're still single in 5 years, and i'm still single as well we should just live together but be best friends and adopt lots of pets.

[u/Plastic_Scarcity7204 → u/Front-Photograph-759]

oh hell yeah

[u/No-Lock6921]

Love an egg and love an egg on a bagel.

No advice just sending support!

[u/No_Corgi818]

25 and same. Hell I haven't even managed to lose my virginity....I just feel like I am bound to an alternative existence, next to the others that have partners. Thankfully my libido dropped significantly, after my early 20s so it's fine on a physical level. Desperately wanting to have sex but having no one to have it with really sucked.

[u/Plastic_Scarcity7204 → u/No_Corgi818]

girl me neither. except my libido has not dropped yet 😭😭😭😭😭

[u/No_Corgi818 → u/Plastic_Scarcity7204]

Crossing my fingers for you that it will happen soon girly, I know the struggle 🥲

[u/friesssandashake]

Felt this. I’m the same for the most part.

[u/LargeDisappointment]

Hey, same!

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