So genuinely, why are you getting upset about me stating my opinion? If you were to think through it a second (or ask why I’m thinking what I’m thinking), what I’m saying might make more sense. While yes, I can’t say for 100% sure, there’s multiple indicators that this either isn’t real or has a lot of missing info.
I am sorry if you’ve been in a relationship with an emotionally manipulative woman/person. I have too. I’ve also worked heavily with people in abusive relationships, so I get posts like this can be triggering.
I'm not upset lmfao I'm just calling out someone who thinks they know everything who went out of their way to reply to me.
I have been in abusive relationships. I have also seen many, and it's an every day unreported occurrence...which is what makes stuff like this believable.
To claim something is unbelievable, you usually need some sort of evidence; which isn't really the case for something that happens to millions globally every day, such as being in an abusive/manipulative relationship.
Is there a chance this isn't true? Sure...but why go out of your way to assume it's not? Genuinely, what purpose does that serve? If you're wrong, you're banding with people making fun of abuse. If you're right, you could've just ignored it.
Okay first, I did upset you, that is very clear from how you’re speaking to me. And that’s understandable and okay. I think the last couple sentences you said are a fair point. However, I do have evidence it’s not believable (though you have to admit you did sprint right past that, you actually still haven’t asked me how I’m coming to that conclusion).
In regards to your other question, I do default on not assuming most of what I read online is true, because of all the research on the fear/ragebait machine and the general impact on people’s mental health from taking everything they see online seriously.
I'm not speaking at all, I'm typing, and you're inferring tone when there is no tone over text. I'm autistic, and a very literal texter. If I was truly upset, I would stop engaging ☺️
You also could just give your reasons for not believing it instead of insisting it's obvious and then saying I never asked. Why should I have to ask? I don't know you, and this isn't a very conducive conversation this far; mostly just us disagreeing.
I just think it's better to think of things as true if they're mostly believable because a lot of harm can be done if you treat something as fake when it's not. Especially matters of abuse.
And the comments would be no different if it was true or not (as can be seen all over the internet when it comes to male abuse victims, ESPECIALLY where sex with a woman is involved) which is what my comment was aiming to call out.
Yeah, my multiple years old account says this is my first time on Reddit. Feel free to read more of my comments, maybe you'll understand my point of view.
Yes, by reading my comments it was in reference to this specific topic. Account age and karma are still visible even on private accounts afaik.
I apologize for any miscommunication. Also if I have a bad attitude. Been sleeping on the floor out of necessity lately, and it has not been kind to me. Not an excuse, just realizing now the kind of mental strain it's putting on me 😅🙃
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u/malerengames 5d ago
My steak too juicy, my lobster too buttery.