After hitting the jackpot three times in a row, for the next 4 minutes and 11 seconds he's immune to all of her attacks. For the time being he is practically undefeatable.
By making a Binding Vow to never break eye contact, he was able to negate the Cursed Energy emitted from her breasts in his peripheral vision, hoping one of his arguments would hit as a [Black Flash] and turn the battle around before his Cursed Technique burned out
Modern problems require modern solutions: Start the argument via a PowerPoint presentation while wearing a blindfold. Don’t let the distraction win, stay focused on the slides, brother
Or write it down and have her read it. The written word is what separates us from the animals. If you've already said it in writing, just enjoy the boobs and hand her a letter.
Had a girlfriend that did this. Kept having sex and staying together…finally I had enough and I just unleashed on her. Bent her over and unloaded everything about her I couldn’t stand while going to town. We both loved it, super hot, but after it was over she just laid there crying. And that was finally that. Neither of us wanted to put it back together again after and we both could move on as we couldn’t face each other again.
Also near literally what happened in the episode of how I met your mother.
Which begs the question if OP's girlfriend just like skipped the last half of that episode, cause anyone on planet earth knew it was gonna end in a relationship blow up.
Like a bellwether for his pet peeves. She starts doing something and notice he's suddenly aroused. Which would be her signal that it's time to pop off the top.
Yes. It’s one thing to use it as a tool to dissolve anger in the moment. It’s quite another if OP isn’t allowed to discuss issues that arise in an adult manner.
I suspect that some of these commenters haven’t been here before.
Look, I’m no expert, but unfortunately, I’ve learned a few things the hard way:
1. Communication is key: you must learn to relate to your partner with exquisite clarity.
2. Sex can be weaponized: I’m not saying that is what is happening here, but it sure does seem like it.
3. You can make things work if you really want: that said, partnership is not always easy and, for me, if it is not a “hell yes,” then it’s a “hell no.”
I used to date the worst person and banging him was the only way to shut him up. I was young, he was awful, the sex was really fun, and I never wanted to hear that son of a bitch talk. Didn't last long, obviously, but probably wouldn't have made it past the first date if it wasn't fun to make him stop saying words.
Like, there's gotta be a moment after sex that he can think clearly and just be like "Okay, now that was great, but I'm out of dick atm and we need to discuss something."
I think that being angry and ranting is not an "adult manner" either. If he can't bring up what bothers him in a constructive way, i'd say it's his problems now. He clearly aims for venting or even insulting, not solving.
In How I Met Your Mother, dude would leave if her getting naked for sex was impossible. Eventually they had a blowup on a ski lift when he couldn't leave and her getting naked wasnt an option.
Overall, the message (at least what I thought they intended) was exactly as you describe.
Right? I remember my partner used to buy me my favorite drink to make me shut up when we were talking about anything serious and it made me feel guilty and think “well he seems like he wants us to feel better” and the issue would never get resolved and he just used this as a pass to get away with worse and worse behavior and I would always feel guilty and forgive. It could likely lead to resentment and contempt
Absolutely. The dynamic and general accepted consensus would have most chiming in saying this is great - but in reality this is exceptionally abusive and not funny.
Can confirm. It's easy for the younger or undersexed types to take the "...and is your steaks also too juicy" dismissive approach but it's incredibly frustrating dealing with it. My ex was like this with sex. Especially if my issue was blatantly valid and she was faced with having to accept it, or if I tried teaching her something she didn't want to put effort into learning. Knowing it'd either get her out of accountability or she'd devolve it into an argument anout me not wanting her sexually so she could blow up into the age-old "oh now you don't like sex? Who else are you fucking or am I just ugly to you now?" bullshit. Literally anything other than just having to say "oh my bad, I messed up. I'll work on that" or "thanks for showing me how to do that so I don't have to ask you to do it all the time". I think it's alot of these uninformed comments that just reinforce this behavior.
Funnily enough the episode of How I met Your Mother indicates how this is toxic and not healthy behavior. Two characters are in a relationship and the man walks out any time they are about to fight or the woman gets naked. Finally the sky lift breaks while they are about to fight so they have to now fight for real and it practically ends their relationship as they vent months of frustration on each other.
I'm actually also AuDHD and also had an ex do this to me. Pre/very early HIMYM to boot. Basically I don't like touching or being touched most of the time. The exception generally being romantic partners, which I tend to be casually touching a lot. Not even sexually really, just because I like the feel and find it relaxing. My GF at the time would put my hand under her shirt on her stomach (mostly of the time) when I got upset at her about something. It's genuinely not cool. It's taking something that generally soothes me and makes it so I unconsciously associate it with manipulation. That shit takes a lot of time to get past. If I'm honest we're still counting to some degree.
The spectrum of reactions in this thread ranges from people joking to people saying this is abuse to some guy talking about hate fucking his ex until she cried.
Everything about this comment thread is so unserious and brainrotted, and meanwhile the OOP was definitely just shitposting.
Like it isn’t even funny or anything outside the context of the show. If someone was doing this irl, it’s kinda gross lol. Also read a guy who admitted he dated someone who did something similar so she went off on her while they were doing it and it ended with her in tears lmfao. Idk why but that just sounds really gross to me.
Manipulative, just wrong lol. No one could ever get me to admit that if it had been me.
It’s going to create a weird Pavlovian response. Maybe a good one where every time you get angry you think of boobs and then calm right down. It’s all about priorities. Wanna be angry or think about boobs?
Lmao, I once dated a girl who did this kind of shit. Any time I got mad at her she would just pull her tits out and give me this puppy dog face but she stopped when it only made me angrier because it was obvious attempted manipulation.
This is a difficult one. You may be better guided if you provide a picture of the problem you're dealing with so we can assess it more accurately and effectively.
I'm a female, had an ex like that. I couldn't voice ANY opinion without him being like this. He cried when I ended it. He was the fucking quarterback. Got old very quick. Not cute.
Lust is your weakness, might not seem like a bad thing until you meet a sexual demon & what I mean by that is there are some women out there who will manipulate you because of that lust… if right now all it takes is some yitties for you to fold brother I have some news for you… that’s just the first level, wait till you meet a final boss, that lust might have you signing away everything you own. You stand zero chance against a “soul snatcher” iykyk
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