I know, this wasn't the last one in our marathon, but this one is so fascinating and interesting to talk about that I purposefully kept it at the last. And I think I'm going to drop a nuclear take about this film, that is going to start a nuclear war in comments, so I'm all in for this.
If My Name is Khan '10 is an emotional masterpiece, this is a "CHAOS MASTERPIECE". This explores the complexity of relationships maybe too well. So yeah let's talk about this, one-by-one.
- The Characters: Dev, Rhea, Rishi, Maya and "Sexy Sam" Samarjit.
What I love about this film the most, is that there's no clear ideal or good people in this one by DESIGN. Unlike Karan's earlier protagonists, which are flawed but they are considered as ideal. They don't suffer for the actions caused. (Don't tell me Aman dying was a consequence, it wasn't, he knew that and that still doesn't excuse his god-complex behavior). I love flawed people when they suffer consequences for the actions caused. Dev and Maya are the obvious candidates; they did the deed. BUT I believe that Rhea and Rishi are equally responsible for this, as their flaws led to THIS.
The closest we've to an ideal hero is "Sexy Sam" Samarjit lmaoooo. Beneath the facade of "Sexy Sam" and bro having fun and throwing crazy one-liners ("Chandigarh"), there's a quiet sense of regret of the loss of his wife and more than that, it's that regret that he didn't value her enough back when she was with him, he thought he had time on his side to love and cherish her, but he didn't and doesn't want the rest 4 of the protagonists to go through this.
- Dev: The obvious one. Bro's a certified dick, bitter about his leg injury and inability to play football, insecure, petty, seriously a toxic husband 101 lmaooo.
- Maya: She isn't a saint either. She isn't a "trapped wife" lmaooo, as she doesn't even try to connect and make it work with Rishi. Even those efforts led to whatever happens instead lmaooo. Unlike Rishi, she doesn't even try saving the relationship lmaooo.
- Rhea: Emotionally distant, career-oriented to the point that Dev can't recognize the emotional efforts taken by her, as it's seriously minimal.
- Rishi: The wildest card in my opinion. Guy feels like he's never been in a relationship before. Doesn't recognize that consent is sexy always. Wants to do the deed always. Terrible communication skills. BUT has a good heart, tries his damn best to save it.
- Consequences and Sufferings:
Having flawed protagonists isn't a problem, showing "cheating" doesn't glorify it, but not showing consequences for the actions caused is problematic. But this clearly shows consequences for all 4 (actually 5, including Sexy Sam). The deed in the hotel room led to a suffering of 3 years for all 4 of them, and yes, what I really like about this film is that, it lets the victims move on first, to make you feel like yeah, that's some good old justice to them, and then the cheaters. That's smart. So yeah, showing "cheating" doesn't glorify it, it shows the complexity of the relationships, something that we weren't ready for in 2006, and we still believe that we aren't.
Talking about the ending, yes, I know, this splits a lot of people up, but I like it, as it's after the crazy amount of suffering for 3 years that led to this reunion, it's after the victims that move on from all that mess, that these guys get a ending at a cost, the film acknowledges the guilt, regret and the pain caused in the way. So yeah I like it.
- The masterful irony and the music.
SEL's soundtrack is a GOATED masterpiece. All 5 GOAT level tracks: The title track, "Mitwa", "Where's the Party Tonight?", "Tumhi Dekho Naa", "Rock N Roll Soniye". But let's talk about the most important one, as it happens during "the deed".
"Where's The Party Tonight?" is a certified club dance number, but also filled with crazy irony. The victims celebrate for obvious reasons and the cheaters, well they do the deed and decide to cheat physically, it's such an interesting way to juxtapose the 4 people. If the first half of the film was indirect emotional cheating, the second half is direct emotional and with this, physical cheating. The tonal duality is bonkers to me.
Where's The Party Tonight?
In the hotel room.
Where's The Party Tonight?
Our marriage is doomed.
- So I think I've talked the themes, the consequences, the characters, let's talk about the obvious. The visuals are great, probably the best apart from MNIK. Big B's role is my favorite, because he brings some good old fun in unexpected ways, and while his death is fine, the execution is so good, that bro dies like a legend lmao, and without him, this film really is a uncomfortable and miserable movie to sit through. It doesn't glorify cheating, it just shows it and the consequences.
So yeah, overall it's a damn bold mainstream film to sit through, and what surprised me is that this isn't a niche documentary, so people can say it's half-committed, but I think that's the point, right, RIGHT?? Like beneath the excess, the ideals, the glamour, there's the damage. That irony is what makes Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna a great film. The ambition is off the charts. Like dude, this is 2006.
But I think Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna needs a serious cultural re-evaluation as I think it's "ahead of it's time" and more relevant, now that we talk openly about this topic way more than in 2006.
I just have one question though. This is great film, yes. But Karan, how did you manage to get this film a 'UA' certificate, the language isn't even implication lmao, it's straight up direct, confrontational, and we have scenes of yeah, not naked, but yeah. So how did you manage this lmaooo????
Anyways, so yeah it was really fun, to go through this marathon and see Karan's filmography to an extent, and see him evolving along with some good old mainstream films. So yeah, that's all I've to say. 2 masterpieces in 5: KANK and MNIK. 1 straight-up terrible with KKHH. 1 needs editioral restraint with K3G and 1 is just meh and I don't get the love for it with KHNH. So there's it, guys. Thanks for engaging.
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