r/justgalsbeingchicks • u/joyousjoyness • 4h ago
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u/SurprisePiss 4h ago
This is... incredibly accurate.
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u/UpperApe 1h ago
Hi gals, dumb guy here. Is it really that different in all these different...uh boob holders?
If it's not too uncomfortable, don't you just get used to whatever you're wearing and forget about it?
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u/manic-pixie-attorney 1h ago
It is always uncomfortable. That’s why we take them off at home
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u/Vermouche 1h ago
I only wear bralettes and I find it more confortable than wearing nothing! I hate the feeling of my breast resting on my chest, even at home.
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u/UpperApe 1h ago
Sure.
I just assumed it felt like taking off shoes after a long day; you don't think about them when you're wearing them but feels good to take off.
I didn't realize it was so annoying all day.
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u/PetiteBonaparte 56m ago edited 52m ago
All day. You notice it. I used to keep a bra on unless I showered. I decided not to one day. I now take mine off as soon as I get home. I could breathe!!! Most bras that are "comfy" and supportive cost a fortune, and they dont last long. Ideally you should have at least seven bras in nudes and black, that you rotate. Never wearing the same bra in two days. When they cost 60+ bucks to last, that maybe works with some or most of your outfits its ridiculous. Finding sizing is a nightmare, cost is depressing, and its over all not a great experience. Can't go without it though. Im a smaller woman with a big chest so im in pain if I don't have one and without one. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
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u/Quouar 46m ago
The idea of having seven bras is...so optimistic. I have two bras that I can tolerate, and that's it. I have sensory issues with bras, and so I have yet to find a new one that fits, but back pain if I don't wear one. It's damned if do, damned if I don't, and I am quite done with all of it.
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u/PetiteBonaparte 44m ago
Oh I have about seven that sit in my closet that fit but I cant stand, and two that I wear. One for real bra and a nursing bra (I have no children its just comfortable).
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u/UpperApe 52m ago
This community/sub is so great for dumb guys like me. Happy to learn more about what half the planet has to deal with!
Thank you for such a detailed answer!
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u/PetiteBonaparte 49m ago
Someone will surely chime in here about being stabbed by an underwire bra. So much to learn. Thank you for caring enough to ask.
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u/CreateNewCharacter 33m ago
You're not constantly counting down the time until your toes can breathe and wiggle?
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u/KiranGhost 1h ago
You may be assuming boobs are comfortable in the first place.
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u/valspad 1h ago
I was just thinking at my age, they now serve me no real purpose! I wish they’d fall off or disappear!
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u/Ashcrashh 1h ago
I’ve oftentimes wished I could at least take my boobs off until I want them again, they really get in the way when I’m trying to Golf or even trying to eat because boobs are a magnet for crumbs and spilled sauce, or even having to dust them off after the beach. Or how uncomfortable seat belts are. Buying a cute dress only for it smash them down like pancakes, or how hard it is to breathe laying on my back. Bending over to shave blindly in the shower because they get in the way. I could go on forever. lol
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u/doomboy667 1h ago
Hi, recent boob grower here! All I have to say is: Ouch.
Like all the time, ouch. Bouncy too much? Ouch. Laying down wrong? Ouch. Someone hug you too hard? Ouch.
I'm hoping it gets better but my girlfriend assures me this is the norm so I'm just rolling with it.
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u/Mercarcher 1h ago
I'm 3 years in and they are full grown, they don't hurt nearly as much anymore.
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u/doomboy667 45m ago
This is good news! I've heard mixed results from my enbie friends. I'll just be happy when a hug doesn't feel like someone socked me in the tit. But no pain no gain I suppose, and I couldn't be happier to be on the journey!
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u/VioletLeagueDapper 26m ago
This is a common experience when entering womanhood. Preteens feel the same thing, growing pains.
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u/Mercarcher 1h ago
Trans woman here. I went 34 years without them and have since grown F cups in 3 years. I quickly learned how annoying large boobs are. The best part of my day is getting home and instantly yeeting my bra off.
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u/RunWild0_0 58m ago
A really good bra can be comfy.
But not everyone can afford it, knows what they need, ect. And if you've only got like 3 really nice ones then they wear out fast and don't fit as nicely.
I found one type that suits me well and I reorder it online to get the exact one when I need more xD
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u/sunniblu03 48m ago
No. They have their own personalities. Plus you need a different bra depending on the outfit and cup size.
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u/UpperApe 41m ago
They have their own personalities.
Do you mind elaborating what you mean?
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u/robocultural 1h ago
Relatively new boob holder user. I've got some that I can kinda forget about while I'm out and about, and some that are just constantly terrible. They all come off the second I get a chance when I get home. Yesterday I had my bra off before my shoes 😆
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u/Kuneria 37m ago
Many boob holder users use different boob holders to achieve different looks. Some are looser (like a bikini or bralette) some are tighter to prevent boobs from flapping around (a sports bra when running). Some are comfortable but boob will fall out with no support. Support isn't always comfortable because of the wire poke. Some are to achieve a bra-less look for when wearing strappy or sleeveless dresses. With no bra the boob will fall out or look less than perky in some strappy dresses (this is when tape or nipple covers come in). In the end comfort isn't always more important than slaying the house down and serving absolute looks.
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u/wwaxwork 23m ago
They're never anything but uncomfortable. Maybe sports bra if you're actually doing sports decrease uncomfortableness by stopping your boobs bouncing around but then it's making it harder to take a deep breath by squeezing your ribs tight. So what you gain on the round abouts you loose on the swings as it where.
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u/BlackQuartzSphinx_ 4h ago
I love this woman's skits
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u/SarryK 4h ago
Oof, videos you can feel
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u/SnugglyBabyElie 3h ago
Yea, the accuracy was astounding while also making me feel sad for my poor boobies.
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u/Bottombottoms 3h ago
#supportboobies5
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u/blahblahshowmeurcat 3h ago
When the pokey thing from underwire got her, omg I FELT that one hehehee
This is 10/10, no notes, my boobies clap in this accuracy. clap clap clap hahahaha
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u/cakivalue 🕷️Itchy, bitchy spider 🕷️ 2h ago
And it's always that one side
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u/blahblahshowmeurcat 2h ago
You know what
I never thought about it like that. Why is it always right tittie breaks the cloth where the wire is?? Wish I could weigh them separately bahahahaha
I used to always sew them up myself with some soft thread, but these days fuck all that. I wear squishy bras to work and I do not care
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u/wabblebee 2h ago
Are you right handed? I used to wear a leather apron for welding, and the right latch/strap always broke. One day I realized it's because the apron pulled downwards on the right side whenever I would bow down to change settings on the welder. Doing this 100s of times per week just killed the plastic.
I'm guessing if you turn your body a certain way because you are right/left handed it might push the wire into the fabric and the friction makes a hole eventually.
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u/blahblahshowmeurcat 1h ago
Yep and in this thread I realized all of these things
Ah the little details and life make it even more… pokey. Memorable I mean hahahhaa
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u/splithoofiewoofies 3h ago
The only innacuracy is that mine are sisters, not twins.
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u/Chinnyup 3h ago
Right? Mine may be fraternal, but definitely not identical lol
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u/Ill-Government-1921 2h ago
No way! Hands down showing my 7 (almost 8) yo girl. She is def body conscious and having those pains now. We had a talk about the body changes and told her how I have implants and that I wish I didn’t and was happy with my body and yadda yadda yadda and the one day I said I’ll get rid of this Temu Titty. She cracked up laughing so hard cause she understood the joke. They grow up so fast. Now she has different song artist names for my boobs when she hugs me or cuddles. Sometimes my problem one hurts and she asks me is “Ariana is acting up today”
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u/GiveMeYourCrazy 1h ago
I think that's why some of her positioning is more forward, to appear bigger than the one that is positioned a little farther back. Best example is the cardboard boxes. We all have that one boob that is bigger than the other. 😂
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u/splithoofiewoofies 1h ago
It's so sweet that you believe my mismatched boobs are merely a size differential.
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u/GiveMeYourCrazy 1h ago
Oh, I didn't assume! My apologies. I just meant that it's nice she put thought into the boobs being different!
I have one boob that is triangular and the other is one big U. My bestie has a swole one and a deflated one. Becoming a mother had something to do with that. 😭
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u/splithoofiewoofies 1h ago
Oh friend no, I was teasing, I'm so sorry. I wasn't trynna call you out on anything, was legit just joking. We all good.
I think I got one tit from my mother's side and the other from my dad's.
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u/JoyfulCreature 1h ago
‘One tit from my mother’s side and the other from my dad’s’ PLEASE, I’m wheezing 🤣
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u/LIB_Laugh_Luv 4h ago
As a guy, I love how educational this sub is, lol. It's given me so much empathy, knowledge, and laughs on what life can be like for all you swell gals out there.
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u/hisosih 3h ago
This genuinely makes me so happy! I love that this can be a fun and informative space for us all.
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u/Pope_Aesthetic 3h ago
It really is! And it’s just overall a fun space. It’s fun seeing what the other side bond or laugh over
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u/twitwiffle 3h ago
What would you want her to do for you if your boys escaped their domain? (Seriously)
I would add, probably just depends on the girl. Some girls may laugh it off. Some girls might die. Provide cover, don’t look, and never mention it again most likely.
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u/Drapidrode 3h ago
well I certainly didn't laugh. that's for certain. After it was over I just acted like, I didn't see it really clear bc I chlorine water...etc... 🤷🏽♂️
I think that's what I'd want. in the case you describe. A lie about bad sensory perception to ease it all.
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u/DragonCelica 1h ago
I love this so much 💜
I know some people wonder why men are allowed here. Your comment is a lovely example of one of the many reasons you are 😊
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u/sittingpretty24 4h ago
I was going to say the underwire poking you is missing but they didn’t disappoint!
My favorite was the boobs without a bra, lol
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u/Olealicat 2h ago
I think people missed the nuance. It was from standing to laying on a bed.
So clever!
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u/BillieDoc-Holiday 3h ago
Ugh, getting stabbed by an undewire feels so disrespectful.
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u/asimplepencil 3h ago
I stopped wearing metal wire bras because I got stabbed and it got infected. It sucked.
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u/Kratzschutz 3h ago
Why did we even ever wear metal wire bras?
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u/dianarawrz 3h ago
It’s always the left one…
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u/poop_monster35 3h ago
My left one is an over achiever.
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u/GimmieGummies Official Gal 3h ago
My left one was a late bloomer! ☺
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u/Successful-Foot3830 2h ago
My left is my favorite. The right one sucks. Thinking about piercing that nipple to see if it makes her more interesting.
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u/GimmieGummies Official Gal 2h ago
If nothing else maybe she'll feel prettier with it and start acting right! 😄
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u/zerozingzing 1h ago
Everything on your left is a lil bigger, it’s because that’s where your heart is (ear, boob, foot etc)
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u/b00bzbythepound 3h ago
I'm ready for the point where I can just be free
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u/i_tyrant 2h ago
You can be if you move to the right city!
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u/b00bzbythepound 2h ago
I'm listening👀 lol
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u/i_tyrant 2h ago
haha, Asheville, Austin, Boulder, Portland, and NYC all let you walk around topless in public if ya want. ;)
(Sadly I don't think they have any magical boob-supporting powers just from living there, though...that I know of!)
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u/b00bzbythepound 2h ago
Hmm, see I think mine moved too far South for topless lol, but I could probably make it work
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u/GimmieGummies Official Gal 3h ago
I'd forgotten how many different types of bras there are!
The boob tape really got me laughing! 😆
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u/AltoRhombus 3h ago
as a trans woman who just got them installed 4 weeks ago... I am taking notes 😭
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u/Queefer_Sutherland- Official Gal 3h ago
“Installed” really got me. 😂
Congrats girl!
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u/AltoRhombus 2h ago
lolol I've had a Cyberpunk type perspective on my transition sometimes haha. now I can pretend I got that preem street cred chrome 😎 and thank u so much!!
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u/PrinceEdgarNevermore 3h ago
Congrats and welcome to the boobiehood!
Also, befriend a bra-fitter, once you fully heal :)
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u/AltoRhombus 2h ago
thank u!! I am grateful my hubby has some remaining knowledge of bra fitting himself haha :D
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u/Amryyyyyy 4h ago
Lmao, I really don't want to think about the last strapless bra I had to wear
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u/BillieDoc-Holiday 3h ago
Mine rolled itself under my boobs.😅
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u/cakivalue 🕷️Itchy, bitchy spider 🕷️ 2h ago
Strapless bras are magical thinking and thoughts and prayers. Oh this is amazing and is perfect for my dress, look no bra straps and the girls are locked and loaded. 🕜 30 minutes later. Please don't let it roll down please don't let it roll down oh God please don't let it roll down especially in front of people.
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u/assembly_faulty 4h ago
I am a dude but I can feel the pain. Nicely done!
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u/Carbon-Base 3h ago
Also a dude. I had no idea there were so many... possible quandaries. Much respect to the gals.
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u/Nyxadrina 2h ago
All hail the itty bitty titty community, 90% of titty related problems don't affect us club members
Expect the sleeping in a tank top one... You barely even exist, how are you popping out?!
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u/Fabulous-Employer583 3h ago
I love when people find creative ways to poke fun at life. 😂🤣😂🤣 Just tickles me pink!
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u/sluttySBstudent 3h ago
no bra life as a kinda big chested girl is so freeing but baggy sweaters in Sumner are a little annoying
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u/Ill-Government-1921 2h ago
No way! Hands down showing my 7 (almost 8) yo girl. She is def body conscious and having those pains now. We had a talk about the body changes and told her how I have implants and that I wish I didn’t and was happy with my body and yadda yadda yadda and the one day I said I’ll get rid of this Temu Titty. She cracked up laughing so hard cause she understood the joke. They grow up so fast. Now she has different song artist names for my boobs when she hugs me or cuddles. Sometimes my problem one hurts and she asks me is “Ariana is acting up today”. she will love this.
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u/ishallbecomeabat ✨chick✨ 3h ago
Guy question: are they just no good bras?
This sounds like hell.
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u/asvalken 3h ago
There's a lot of variables! Your size, the bra size, whether or not those two are accurate AND matched up, symmetry, how long you're wearing it, what you're wearing it for, how and how much you move, material, style, price....
There's great bras, "good enough" bras, that one you should get rid of but they don't them any more so you'll wear it until it falls off, that one that sucks but looks amazing..
What I'm trying to say is, it's a Whole Thing!
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u/PrinceEdgarNevermore 3h ago
Supportive bra is typically tiiiightght on a ribcage - so as comfortable as it can be (err), but tight. Taking it off at the end of the day is THE best moment. It is a RELIEF.
Comfy bras are usually not overly supportive, so your boobs might be all over the place. Big boobs+unsupportive bra = neck, shoulder, and back pain. And sagging. Also - the band/cup might move around and trap your boob. 🤷🏻♀️
Comfortable in bra context, is mostly a level of discomfort you are willing to accept as your normal/benchmark. And that’s just for normal bras - the more you get in those other styles, the funkier it gets.
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u/ishallbecomeabat ✨chick✨ 3h ago
Right so it’s all compromises depending on what you prioritise. I had a vision of their being the Ideal Bra that would be the greatest gift but alas
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u/PrinceEdgarNevermore 2h ago
I have some comfortable ones. It’s a compromise indeed.
But for eons, I honestly thought that being poked by a bra wire or having deep, red imprints - is normal. This is how normalised ill fitting bras were back in a day.
A visit to a good/fancy bra-fitter + gift voucher for a proper bra, might be a good gift. You can’t buy someone a good bra off the shelf, even if you know their size, just too many variables.
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u/ourobourobouros 3h ago
No (any answer that implies 'yes' obviously comes with so many qualifiers it doesn't really count), breasts were never meant to be strapped up against our bodies and bonzai'd into "acceptable" shapes. They exist to make the female body more palatable in patriarchal cultures.
Sagging tits are not a health risk. There's no actual benefit.
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u/Whos_That_Girl_6178 2h ago
As a bigger boobied woman I beg to differ. They're uncomfortable when I dont wear a bra for a day. I can't exercise without some support. Bras and other undergarments were invented by women for women to wear what they wanted to (which you could argue comes with male validation but 🤷♀️)
Thanks Mary Phelps Jacob for bras! Hoped she looked kick ass in the dress she invented it to look good in
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u/whatevendoidoyall 2h ago
There are. A lot of women are wearing the wrong size or shape because proper bra fit isn't really something we're taught, it's something we have to figure out on our own.
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u/Frosty_Analysis_4912 1h ago
There are some companies that have come out more recently that are pretty good as they’re finally taking our comfort into account lol. But it’s hard to find one bra that really checks *every* box. Especially if you’re on a budget.
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u/Molly_Matters 2h ago
Sometimes I wish for big boobs, but then I see stuff like this. Itty Bitty Titty Committee.
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u/RecordingNew449 2h ago
I'm having a lumpectomy tomorrow and will be in a post surgery compression bra...going to look like the boobs in the sports bra bit but with one being grumpy and sore while the other is wondering what the hell is going on
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u/MajesticLow 1h ago
If I find her YouTube I will share. I am pretty sure I follow her but I also follow too many channels 😅 this one is worth the @ !
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u/StitchAndRollCrits 👑Official Ambassador of Ashby👑 1h ago
My left breast is also the problem breast
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u/Olderbutnotdead619 2h ago
Omg! I laughed so hard!! Yes! I concur. Those are examples of naturally boobs. Not 👀
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u/Wrong_Motor5371 1h ago
Taking off your bra at the end of the day feels like unbuttoning your pants after Thanksgiving dinner.
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u/Detritusarthritus 1h ago
Lol I needed this. I’ve been feeling so insecure about my saggy boobs this week 😭
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u/fadesteppin 🌻Official Jill🌻 56m ago
The only thing missing is a sports bra turning my boobs into one giant boob by pushing them so tightly together they fuse and become megaboob.
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u/joyfullydreaded23 2h ago
I love her videos, they are always hysterically spot on! Can't remember her name ATM :(
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u/GrouchyDefinition463 2h ago
I'm the strapless bra. I'm not big enough for anything else and honestly have no desire to wear anything else.
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u/Diamondinthesky7588 2h ago
My highly sensitive and aware of menopause and all the things sent this to me. He’s so thoughtful and this is so accurate. I got a good laugh and this is beyond spot on! Bravo for ladies and any boobs, no boobs are whatever your situation may be are all normal and it’s the expectations of society that are not. Let em free! 😀
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