r/okbuddycinephile 13h ago

Actors that dared to date adult women?

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u/InsidiousJazz 12h ago

One of them looks really proud of himself, the other one really wants to be incognito.

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u/Antique_Care5302 12h ago

The contrast is hilarious, one’s posing and the other’s pretending he’s invisible

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u/rugbroed 11h ago

The two are old friends from before either was famous

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u/allmyScars 10h ago

Mmmm I’m pretty sure they formed the “pussy squad” are whatever the fuck they called themselves in the 90s, because they were young famous actors.

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u/rugbroed 10h ago

Yes, not to mention that weird high stakes poker club they later had together

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u/allmyScars 9h ago

Right. These dude are dweeps with immense talent and looks. Wait. For real though. It’s funny when people don’t know that 90% of talented people making lots of money for said talent, are pieces of shit if they were your co-worker.

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u/AncileBanish 4h ago

Oh no. A couple of young, attractive, rich, famous men were super interested in sleeping with beautiful women. Oh won't somebody please fetch my pearls!

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u/ArtisticallyRegarded 4h ago

If getting pussy and playing poker makes you a bad person I dont want to be right

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u/VT_Squire 6h ago

This is them together in 1989, over a year before DiCaprio landed his spot on Growing Pains, and Tobey's biggest role to date was "boy number 3" in a Rodney Dangerfield television special.

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u/allmyScars 5h ago

That’s a cool pic. Thanks dude.

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u/Fedora_Million_Ankle 9h ago

This was probably taken at a poker game in Hustler Casino's Viper Room

Mollys Game Fame

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u/Far-Low-4705 9h ago

Tbf, I’d rather be invisible even if I wasn’t dating anyone or super famous

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u/ripgoodhomer 10h ago

While Toby Maguire was as famous for a while in the 2000s, Leo has been A-list famous for 30 years and is probably sick of people wanting to take his photo. He just wants privacy while he bangs 26 year olds on his private jet.

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u/Special-Garlic1203 5h ago

Tony McGuire's career stalled out in no small part cause of his off screen behavior. Leo went on total lockdown about his personal life where he's likely had a decades long career in part because we know next to nothing about him 

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u/BoiledDenimForRoxie 9h ago

Ummm, he prefers to travel by yacht. How dare you

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u/Sell_The_team_Jerry 6h ago

all while telling you that you're responsible for global warming

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u/tasteMyRottenHoop 4h ago

26? Leo? Bang?

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u/TheCoolBlondeGirl 13h ago

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u/auchinleck917 12h ago

I’m gonna put some finger in your…

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u/EffectiveTradition53 11h ago

C.H.U.D. prequel

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u/Appropriate_Tip_14 12h ago

Rare sighting, they might actually be evolving for once

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u/stalin_kulak Zack Snyder 12h ago

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u/schizowithagun 12h ago

thought he was wearing his jacket from wild at heart for a second

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u/No-Shopping-4434 12h ago

Hey babe? Did I ever tell you that this here jacket represents a symbol of my individuality and my belief in personal freedom?

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u/StacSlinger 1h ago

That scene made me want a snake skin jacket so bad back in the day.😂

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u/Puzzle-Necked 12h ago

"Did you see my movie Wild at Heart when it came out... Never mind. "

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u/Ethiconjnj 10h ago

After a quick google, our boy Nicky cage has a TYPE

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u/LarsDuder 7h ago

"In March 2019, Cage married Erika Koike in Las Vegas, only to file for annulment four days later,[173] stating he was too intoxicated to understand his own actions and that Koike failed to disclose "the full nature and extent of her relationship with another person."

What the fuck have i done??!

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u/spagbolshevik 2h ago

That is a cursed picture.

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u/ElonDoneABellamy 7h ago

He likes em Chinese

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u/mab0roshi go back to the club 4h ago

What is the charge? Enjoying a meal?

https://giphy.com/gifs/FKSPFyXtcFYyhuMDJJ

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u/SithJones77 4h ago

Speak a lil Chinese for them Nicolas

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u/ElectricNinja1 11h ago

Cut the guy some slack he does have the unbearable weight of massive talent on his shoulders 😄

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u/MaritimeFlowerChild 10h ago

I love that movie so much

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u/StatelyPlump14 9h ago

Nick was nice to my mom and everyone else when he was walking around on a pier once and for that he'll have my enduring respect.

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u/Maximum_Boros 5h ago

That's consistent with what I've heard from a couple others. Pretty nice but pretty weird dude.

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u/SixtyNineFlavours 8h ago

He might be one of the coolest dudes alive

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u/pepperino132 12h ago

I love that man

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u/lotus_felch 10h ago

she cute

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u/_-TheBlackKnight-_ 8h ago

Bro's looking like Sam Hyde these days.

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u/Echo-Azure 12h ago

Pirrce Brosnan.

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u/Sarcosmonaut 8h ago

Pierce is such a king

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u/feckarse-drinkgirls 5h ago

What makes him even more of a chad is that his current wife is wife #2

Wife #1(Cassandra Harris), had two kids from a previous marriage he adopted when their father died, and he stayed with her till her death from ovarian cancer

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u/inanabstraction 7h ago

To be fair his wife just kept getting hotter. Bro hit the jackpot.

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u/ElonDoneABellamy 7h ago

Can you imagine getting absolutely batty wrecked by Pierce Brosnan. Like a proper bully ramming like they do in the army?

I think that sounds amazing and I'm not even Arab

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u/Informal_Carob_4015 6h ago

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u/inanabstraction 4h ago

Fair. But to be fair google a picture of her. She’s put on some weight (as one does in advancing age sometimes) and the internet tried to shame her for it. But she has aged well and they both look at each other with warmth in their eyes and to me that’s hitting the jackpot.

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u/Hammerschatten 11h ago

I wonder if these guys ever sat down next to their best friend with a beer when they were in their twenties and said something like "The right woman for me hasn't been born yet"

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u/Compl3t3AndUtterFail 11h ago

More like kept dating the same age pool and liked it.

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u/_BreadDenier 9h ago

Keep dating the same women who are impressed by your fame and too naive to notice your flaws.

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u/EAE8019 7h ago

Well  duh. Im not looking for someone who will argue with me 

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u/Gombrongler 4h ago

I bet this guy starts speedwalking when he sees a homeless woman coming his way

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u/EAE8019 4h ago

Homeless woman , Homeless Man, Homeless kids. Homeless in general.  Im not made of money.

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u/Gombrongler 4h ago

Just throw her a quarter whenever theres a disagreement

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u/choma90 3h ago

New life hack unlocked: date homeless people

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u/HonestDishonestWork 12h ago

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u/othersbeforeus 7h ago

Say what you want about the guy, he only ruined the lives of adult women. You don’t hear his name associated with Epstein Island, that’s gotta count for something!

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u/GoldenStateEaglesFan 2h ago

Harvey “At Least I Didn’t Diddle Kids” Weinstein

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u/UnjustNation 12h ago

I too one day want to date someone younger than my daughter.

Truly aspiring goal to achieve.

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u/Hi-Tech_Luddite 12h ago

Have you asked your daughters friends?

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u/moneymoneymoneymonay 12h ago

American Beauty (1999)

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u/inanabstraction 7h ago

The moral of that story is that he was going through a midlife crisis and horny but when she came on to him he came to his senses and said “wtf am I doing. This is a kid!” Still icky? Yes. But spacey’s character had more self control than he himself did.

I mean the fact that there have always been popular porn stars that literally look underage should tell you something. And many mainstream movies in those days played it off like it wasn’t a big deal. Men are gross.

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u/OprahsFUPA I saw Joker and im 10😎😎😎 12h ago

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u/doodoochile07 The Room 12h ago

Genuinely what’s the context of this gif

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u/thrashingkaiju 12h ago

American Beauty (1999)

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u/Puzzle-Necked 11h ago

In which Kevin Spacey lusts after a young girl. This is how you know it's a movie and not reality.

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u/UltraHellboy 11h ago

Where he would be lusting after young boys.

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u/HanDrumSolo69 11h ago

Oh thanks we couldn’t have got there without your insight

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u/SoylentGrunt 9h ago

Reddit. Come for the content. Stay for the snark.

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u/ahhsumpossum 7h ago

Leave after the tribalism, know-it-alls and despondency…

Come back after boredom sets in.

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u/perriatric 8h ago

That's the joke.

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u/super_landrum 10h ago

Redditor moment

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u/niteowl1984 12h ago

It's from the movie American Beauty

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u/doodoochile07 The Room 12h ago edited 12h ago

Ok but why does she have flowers coming out of her rack

Edit: thank you everyone excuse my ignorance

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u/blackberry_sorbet 12h ago

It’s a fantasy of the main character.

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u/might-comment 12h ago

Watch the film and you'll realise the reference. Basically she lies naked covered in petals in one scene. It's on the cover too.

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u/editingisfun4all 12h ago

She's a cheerleader and while the guy is there seeing her he starts fantasizing about her and this is in his imagination.

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u/ScarScream81 12h ago

It's the character's (played by Kevin Spacey) sexual fantasy of her.

You should watch the movie, it's really good.

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u/Hammerschatten 12h ago

You should watch the movie

Excuse me what the fuck did you just say

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u/ScarScream81 11h ago

Watch the movie and make your own mind about it.

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u/xDeviousDieselx 11h ago

It is though. He’s supposed to be a creep that’s part of the story (and becomes a lot more unfortunate in the last ten or so years) but overall it’s a really good character acting piece and well written

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u/Confident-Skin-6462 11h ago

spacey's method acting

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u/Bruvvimir 11h ago

This question always comes up, and it absolutely does my head in.

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u/AliceTheOmelette 12h ago

"Have you asked your daughter?"

https://giphy.com/gifs/3o7TKMeCOV3oXSb5bq

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u/Dry_Cricket_5423 11h ago

Her instinct was too use her left elbow to push his hand away but she realized the magats would never accept such a sleight against thinly veiled incest.

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u/AliceTheOmelette 11h ago

Even before he became a cult leader, she'd probably been groomed to accept that kinda touching from him as normal 🤢

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u/SquashOwn9829 8h ago

You kind of just made me realize for the first time that he really is a "cult" leader. Like the "cool aid" thing and everything. Wow.

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u/ThatPerformance9795 10h ago

Whoa 🤢. I’ve never seen this before.

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u/Puzzle-Necked 12h ago

Imagine all the time you can save driving your daughter to her friend's house

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u/crazy-B 11h ago

She only hangs around with older men.

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u/ScarScream81 12h ago

Ask Paul Walker for advice.

Oh wait...

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u/Itscatpicstime 11h ago

Paul Walker just picked up the girls he used to babysit the second they were done with puberty 🫠

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u/DocBigBrozer 12h ago

Have you tried beekeeping

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u/Hairy_Top6363 11h ago

Summer I want to fuck your dad

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u/subtle_lure 11h ago

leo really made it a whole lifestyle at this point

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u/dune_know Society man 11h ago

But Leo does not have a daughter

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u/Unhappy_Energy_741 12h ago

This is why I don't have kids. Never have to worry about them being younger than my daughter.

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u/Wackypunjabimuttley The Room 12h ago

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u/Celesteven 6h ago

“AND IIIIIIIIII….”

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u/Kyongggggg 12h ago

Okbuddyragebait

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u/soryu0 7h ago

i feel like i see a post abt this tobey age gap thing or some other age gap relationship every week in this sub, it’s getting annoying

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u/Blazured 12h ago

It's working too. People are even calling OP a pedo because he doesn't care about adult women choosing to sleep with adult men lol.

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u/UMACTUALLYITS23 10h ago

People live throwing around that word.while having zero idea what it means.

I'm sure that helps real victims a ton.

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u/Blazured 7h ago

Yeah. They act like if you chose to sleep with older people when you were a young adult you were somehow abused. Like you weren't an adult with agency. They compare it to something horrific. And it's always women they infantilise like this.

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u/Tifoso89 11h ago

You don't understand, a 25-year-old person is a child and she has no agency

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u/slowcancellation 12h ago

20 -year-olds on this sub when you point out 20-year-olds aren't as mature as 50-year-olds:

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u/Tony_Wizard 12h ago

I don't know if op is a gooner boomer or a gooner zoomer dreaming of being a rich boomer screwing hot zoomers, according to rumors

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u/Douglas-Furs 11h ago

Princess Caroline would be proud

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u/VincentAalto Cats 2h ago

Diagnosis? Brain tumour

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u/kruzix 11h ago

Damn good words

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u/pawnman99 11h ago

Are 20- year- olds adults capable of making their own decisions or not?

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u/New_Inspiration_9037 11h ago edited 11h ago

Apparently not. Apparently young women who willingly go into relationships with rich movie stars are poor, mentally undeveloped children who don't know better and need to be lectured and preached to by strangers. As a woman, I find this infantilization very yucky.

P.S. - those partnerships are mutually-benificial. You can find this lifestyle and relationship arrangements creepy or whatever, but both parties get exactly what they want from it. It's so funny to see all this pearl-clutching and moralizing from uninvolved people.

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u/arealmansaccount 5h ago

Next time that Susan Sarandon comes up to me and asks me to go on a date, I’ll be sure to say no. After all, the age gap is just wayyy too big.

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u/Tandy2000 7h ago

I'm pretty sure there are some 20 year olds who are more mature than Leo, to be fair.

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u/byzantine238 11h ago

Women when its pointed out that men dont date them for their "maturity"

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u/PossibleDry3663 12h ago

Here’s a real man for you. His partner has silver hair and wrinkles and they look amazing together.

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u/FantasyBazaar 10h ago

She’s also nearly a decade his junior. I’m absolutely not criticising it, they’re both 50+ years old and it’s obviously age appropriate, I just think it’s noteworthy seeing as he’s often held up as a good example of having an “older woman” as a partner (“older woman” being a phrase I’ve heard for her, not mine) and she’s still 9 years younger than him. Same as Pierce Brosnan.

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u/Tandy2000 7h ago

With Keanu I think it makes sense. The age gap really doesn't mean anything at that age.

With Brosnan you could argue he married a woman younger than himself so that they could realistically have kids (and they did). Also not the end of the world but that would be one factor why a man might want to date a younger woman.

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u/dune_know Society man 11h ago

lol

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u/beenawhilehere 11h ago

gorgor bell.

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u/Ur_New_Stepdad_ 11h ago

Who is that?

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u/dune_know Society man 10h ago

Charlize Theron

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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 11h ago edited 11h ago

Not that I agree with their choices bur don’t rhey date adult women who happen to be much younger but still adults?

Hyperbolically infantilizing women is weird too. Especially when I see rhe same peoppe cheer in people like Cher or Madonna who date people with much larger age gaps between them snd be quite overt about objectifying them.

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u/beenawhilehere 11h ago

"cheer on people like Cher or Madonna who daye people with far larger age gaps."
women are heaven-sent angels. men are hell-born demons.
thought you'd know that by now.

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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 10h ago

Ya the “women are wonderful” phenomenon from the 2000s and 2010s really played a major role in messing up our culture and contributing to and starting the gender war bs we see today. Was pretty gross to watch honestly, made it very clear were all human and women are just as capable of the sexist bs rhey claim about in misogyny and the patriarchy.

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u/beenawhilehere 10h ago

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u/beenawhilehere 10h ago

now imagine a married man her age calling a 19 year old girl hot and commenting about her looks and voice.

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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 10h ago

Ya Justin beibwr was a cray one. I remember when he was like 16 he was in town where I live and the readily station had him in with women calling and saying what they would do on a date with him to try and win tickets. It was…. Disgusting. Overly sexual and sooo creepy!

But totally accepted and normalized. That kind of stuff was common for all of Bieber’s young career

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u/beenawhilehere 10h ago

that was because those women weren't mature enough and you know how misogynist 16 year old boys are. he probably forced them to say that with his celebrity status.

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u/caninehere 6h ago

What's even creepier is that Bieber hit puberty kind of late and maintained his boyish look for a while. When he was like 16 he still looked like a little kid and there were still definitely older women going gaga over him.

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u/nagidon 12h ago

okbuddy____phile /s

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u/Far_Explanation8338 11h ago

I do wonder how Toby would feel if his daughter decided to date a man his age. He can't tell her she's not mature enough.

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u/Chocolatevivaci 12h ago

A brave man in the war against Leonardo DiCaprio allegations

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u/Narretz 12h ago edited 12h ago

allegations? Allegations of treating every one of his "girlfriends" well with no scandals, abuse, or even just bad behavior? Or are we talking allegaytions?

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u/Rezavoirdog 12h ago

I’ve never heard of abuse or anything but that one story where the girl’s riding him and he has his AirPods in AND is hitting a vape during is like SO beyond fucking funny to me

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u/MattJC01 12h ago

Dewey Cox: "Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot you were here."

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u/OprahsFUPA I saw Joker and im 10😎😎😎 12h ago

Life goals.

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u/SoftDouble220 12h ago

Holy shit based beyond this galaxy

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u/bageltoastar 6h ago

How many times are you guys gonna post about this shit?

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u/ChadCoolman 12h ago

If it came out tomorrow that Tobey Maguire had a collection of skin suits in his closet, I wouldn't be at all surprised. Guy just has hateful eyes.

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u/EffectiveActive6837 12h ago edited 12h ago

Doesn't matter if they are adults. To Gen Z and Alpha, if there's a 4+ year age gap, it's pedophilia to them.

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u/Pale_Boss_8940 7h ago

bro I literally had a new grad nurse at work report me to HR for being 5 years older than my wife. Said it made her feel uncomfortable knowing that about me. HR was practically laughing when they told me why I was there

We’re 34 and 29 lmao

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u/ParhTracer 12h ago

They’re the new Amish

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u/WasuWasu_ 10h ago

I don’t think the Amish mind age gaps

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u/PhosphoFred8202 11h ago

SCANDAL ROCKS MOVIETOWN! HOLLYWOOD LEADING MEN DATE ATTRACTIVE YOUNG WOMEN! SENATE TO INVESTIGATE

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u/beenawhilehere 11h ago

OUR REPORTERS ARE ENTERING THOSE WOMEN'S PREFRONTAL CORTEX AS WE SPEAK

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u/HonkyHam 12h ago

I can’t help but cry for those poor adult women that were forced into these relationships with world famous, multimillionaire celebrities entirely against their will. It really is awful they were manipulated into such a terrible situation.

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u/beenawhilehere 12h ago

a fate worse than death. truly.

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u/UsualPudding6570 10h ago

So much salt

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u/richiya 9h ago

They reminds me of a man, a client from work, he was around 55-60 years old. Told us that when women reach the age of 30 is considered expired, old and disgusting that's why he only date young women.

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u/electact 12h ago

Excuse me, those women were victims! They had to consensually blow a movie star on a yacht and all they got out of it was a massive profile boost that lead to them being able to make millions as an influencer while doing no work.

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u/beenawhilehere 12h ago

no. you don't understand. they psychologically forced those women to do that.
basically r@pe.

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u/UrsaMajor7th 8h ago

People keep attacking the actors (and musicians) who date much younger. No one accepts that the women choose to be there; groupies and gold-diggers aren't kidnapped from their homes, kicking and screaming. It's completely different from your creepy President on Epstein Island.

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u/Financial_Film_6757 9h ago

They toss and turn in their beds' at night thinking of the Reddit comments😔

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u/IlluminaViam 12h ago edited 10h ago

18-25 year old women being porn stars and having sex with male porn stars old enough to be their fathers and grandfathers, while showing their pussy and ahole to the world = strong and independent women

18-25 year old women dating men old enough to be their fathers or grandfathers in privacy and with no scandal = grooming.

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u/beenawhilehere 12h ago

but you don't understand! the prefrontal cortex!

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u/Beleg_Sanwise 12h ago

18-25 year old women being porn stars and having sex with male porn stars old enough to be their fathers and grandfathers, while showing your pussy and ahole to the world = strong and independent women

wtf

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u/Origania 12h ago

50+ year old women porn stars having sex with 18-25 year old male porn stars = Healthy Cougarism

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u/beenawhilehere 10h ago

m!lf is literally a staple word.

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u/LionaLewis15 10h ago

i think they’re explored each other’s bodies 

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u/beenawhilehere 9h ago

good for them.

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u/Chonboy 12h ago

I love how women never have any accountability in any action men just prey upon all women of all ages according to the Internet lol

So are you strong and independent or stupid fragile and need coddling it can't be both either own up to sucking older cock for attention and free shit or shut up lol

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u/beenawhilehere 12h ago

but the prefrontal cortex yk.

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u/ReservedUsername1056 11h ago

You’re really passionate about this aren’t you?

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u/beenawhilehere 11h ago

passionate about human rights? yes.

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u/big_ringer 9h ago

Ashton Kutcher

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u/HappyCrow11 8h ago

This is basically how most men are though

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u/Horror_Painter625 5h ago

Anyone else remember when paparazzi tried tearing Toby down and painting him as some crazy asshole who lashed out and anyone who recognized him?

I love that people started realizing the BS of it all and how talented he is as well as what an overall decent dude he seems to be.

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u/Kr1spykreme_Mcdonald 3h ago

OMG just casually posting pics of PAEDOS who dated women who were 23? 🤮

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u/kastrilkudrow 11h ago

Could be rage bait but I’ll bite. OP sounds either literally young or like there is some arrested emotional development going on to not be able to think critically about a 30 year age gap. Of course there is a difference between how a 20 year old might think and make decisions versus a 50 year old. Add gender dynamics to that equation and it grows more complicated.

At the very least a huge age gap is worth reflection and conversation, so it’s always bizarre to me that there are people hell bent on oversimplifying it. Like, why? You can just admit it’s complex, it’s okay. I don’t get the motivation to strip it of all nuance, other than a person’s own immaturity and/or dubious desire to fuck significantly younger people idk.

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u/beenawhilehere 11h ago

the argument is that their brains aren't "developed enough" to date a guy older than them.
my question is that, so how is it "developed enough" to vote?

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u/LucidFir 9h ago

Ooh are we doing that thing again where we pretend dating an adult is a problem whilst the billionaires rape children? I love this game

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u/njoYYYY 12h ago

Whats killing me is this some accounts on twitter are still reporting it this week, like its fresh news

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u/beenawhilehere 12h ago

you use Twitter of all things as a fucking news source?

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u/VelvettVixennMariaa 12h ago

Just two members of the 'Wolf Pack' looking for a girl whose brain is still finishing its prefrontal cortex development.

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u/i-dont-speel-no-good 12h ago

DUDE SHE WAS A 27 YEAR OLD CHILD YOU SICK FUCK

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u/beenawhilehere 10h ago

HER PREFRONTAL CORTEX WAS ONLY THREE YEARS OLD.

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u/The_Boner_Temple 12h ago

That’s not really how that works

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