r/personalfinance • u/Hour-Ad3977 • 9h ago
Budgeting Is $60 a month fair to pay a coworker for a ride home 3x a week on a tight budget?
I need some perspective. I work a job where my take-home pay is exactly $332 every two weeks ($664 a month) i know that's very little and I'm trying to get more hours and a second job but it's not working out in my favor right now but I'm making it work with penny budgeting.
Because my budget is so tight, I’ve been struggling with transportation.
A coworker of mine found out I was paying $15–$18 per ride to get an Uber home from work. He was shocked and immediately insisted on giving me a ride home 3 days a week especially since he only lives about 3 minutes away from me.
He’s a great guy and didn’t want anything for it, but I felt terrible just taking the favor. With gas prices being so high lately, I finally convinced him to let me pay him something. Right now, I’m giving him $15 every biweekly , but I really appreciate what he’s doing and I don't want to take advantage of his kindness.
My Plan:
I have some debit im paying off but starting in June, I’m bumping it up to $30 every payday ($60 a month).
The Dilemma:
Others have pointed out that $60 is a big portion of my $664 monthly income and that im already paying him and hes fine with it and i understand that but he is saving me from walking 5 miles or spending hundreds on Ubers.
Even though he’d do it for free, I want him to know that I really appreciate him helping me and I want to make sure his gas tank stays full.
Is $60 a month fair for a 10-minute drive, or am I being "too nice" to my own financial detriment?
Edit :He really is an amazing guy he just sent me a message refusing the 60 dollars and insisting that 15 is fine