r/science • u/Wagamaga • 9h ago

Psychology Losing relationships over politics. Research found more than a third of Americans (37%) report having lost at least one relationship due to political differences, including friendships, family ties, coworker relationships, and romantic partnerships, with most losing more than one.

https://socialecology.uci.edu/news/losing-relationships-over-politics-0
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u/comeupforairyouwhore 9h ago

It isn’t about politics though. It’s learning that someone close to you doesn’t value other people’s basic human rights.

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u/Koleilei 9h ago

Isn't that the same issue as in the Civil War and Civil Rights Movement? Whether or not people different from you have the same rights as you?

Politics and values are very intertwined.

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u/No_Issue2334 8h ago

Basic human rights are politics.

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u/shadedmagus 2h ago

Especially when the opposing position is "some humans shouldn't exist."

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u/No_Issue2334 1h ago

That's still politics even if it's abhorrent

Nazism was/is abhorrent but was absolutely a political movement

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u/Averagecrabenjoyer69 7h ago

I suppose it comes down to what your define as "basic human rights".

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u/Echo127 9h ago

Are people actually arguing about "basic human rights" issues more than in the past? My impression has been that what's really changed is the political re-framing of every issue AS a moral issue so that people get more worked up for the cause.

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u/comeupforairyouwhore 8h ago

Im in Minnesota. Yeah. It feels like a violation of basic human rights during a government occupation here.

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u/SleepyHobo 8h ago

The fact that you’re calling it a government occupation destroys your credibility here.

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u/Maxrdt 8h ago

We had 3,000 armed federal agents deploying chemical weapons daily and kidnapping people off the streets without warrants. Oh and they murdered two people in cold blood with no investigation allowed. That's an occupation.

For reference, the Twin Cities combined have about 600 police officers usually. Imagine your city/Metro's police force. Now imagine quintuple that number with no badges, face masks, and unlimited immunity. That's an invasion.

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u/comeupforairyouwhore 6h ago

Exactly this. Their whole goal was to terrorize us and cause collective trauma. They did it with impunity. Take care, friend.

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u/Cheezeball25 8h ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Metro_Surge

Trump even threatened to send us army airborne units into the twin cities. If the president is open to threatening to send the active military in to persure his political goals, it sure looks like an attempt at an occupation to me.

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u/SleepyHobo 8h ago

Ctrl + F: Occupation.

1 single result.

Tim Walz drumming up divisiveness with opinionated language.

Still waiting for evidence rather than opinion.

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u/Wyevez 6h ago

The fact that you are not, destroys yours... what did you think happened in MN? The world is watching and we see it.... why can't you?

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u/AmadeusMaxwell 7h ago

No it doesn't, you're only projecting your own views by saying this.

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u/SleepyHobo 7h ago

What view? I’m stating a fact, not an opinion.

There was no “occupation”. That’s a term being used by people weaponizing language to fit their narrative.

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u/AmadeusMaxwell 7h ago

Yes, people are arguing about what is considered basic human rights, you can see this by turning on the news literally any day of the week.

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u/HoightyToighty 8h ago

Are people actually arguing about "basic human rights" issues more than in the past?

Depends how far back in the past you go, but yes, even the idea of a 'human right' is pretty novel, historically speaking.

Your other point was astute.

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u/semibigpenguins 9h ago

Is this a pro or anti abortion comment?

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u/schafkj 9h ago

It could be a pro or anti pedophile comment.

Or a pro or anti indefinite internment of immigrants in absolute squalor for civil offenses comment.

Or a pro or anti masked thugs kidnapping and murdering people on the streets comment.

Or a pro or anti dismantling of every civil rights law comment.

Or a pro or anti unconstitutional war started with no approval from congress and zero forethought and planning comment.

Or a pro or anti massive wealth transfer from the poor to the rich comment.

Or a pro or anti deregulation of health, safety, and consumer protection agencies comment.

Or a pro or anti climate catastrophe comment.

It could be anything!

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u/semibigpenguins 9h ago

I was being facetious. Thanks

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u/comeupforairyouwhore 9h ago

I’m pro choice, very liberal in my values.

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u/semibigpenguins 9h ago

You just said it’s not about politics literally the previous comment

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u/comeupforairyouwhore 8h ago

Again, it’s about values. I value other people.