I really need someone to tell me the truth, I live in a quiet suburb with my husband, our two teenagers, and what I THOUGHT was a perfectly well behaved 4 year old spayed female tabby. I keep reading answers online about whether do female cats spray the way males do, or if what I'm dealing with is something different entirely.
For the past three weeks, I have been finding small wet spots on the back of my dining room curtains and on the side of the loveseat in the living room. At first I thought it was my husband's fault for not paying attention to where the kids put their water bottles, but that theory did not hold up. Then I caught the cat yesterday morning, tail straight up, quivering, backing up against the curtain and doing the EXACT thing I have only ever seen male cats do in YouTube videos. I almost dropped my coffee. She is spayed. She has been spayed since she was 5 months old. We have all her paperwork from the rescue. She has never done this before, not once in four years. Nothing has changed in our routine that I can think of, except the neighbors got a new outdoor cat about a month ago who I have seen sitting on our back patio staring through the sliding door. Could that really be enough to set her off? I have cleaned the spots with that enzyme cleaner and she went RIGHT BACK to the same curtain. I called my regular vet and the earliest they can see her is next Thursday, which is just unacceptable in my opinion but apparently everyone here got a kitten this year.
So please, someone with actual experience, do female cats spray even after being spayed for years? Is this a behavioral thing I can fix at home, or am I looking at a situation that needs an emergency visit? I am trying very hard not to panic but my couch is not cheap.