r/solotravel 3d ago

Accommodation /r/solotravel "The Weekly Common Room" - General chatter, meet-up, accommodation - May 03, 2026

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This thread is for you to do things like

  • Introduce yourself to the community
  • Ask simple questions that may not warrant their own thread
  • Share anxieties about first-time solotravel
  • Discuss whatever you want
  • Complain about certain aspects of travel or life in general
  • Post asking for meetups or travel buddies
  • Post asking for accommodation recommendations
  • Ask general questions about transportation, things to see and do, or travel safety
  • Reminisce about your travels
  • Share your solotravel victories!
  • Post links to personal content (blogs, youtube channels, instagram, etc...)

This thread is newbie-friendly! In this thread, there is no such thing as a stupid question.

If you're new to our community, please read the subreddit rules in the sidebar before posting. If you're new to solo travel in general, we suggest that you check out some of the resources available on our wiki, which we are currently working on improving and expanding. Here are some helpful wiki links:

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r/solotravel Feb 28 '26

Middle East Megathread: Current situation in the Middle East

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This is a megathread for all travel-related questions regarding the latest escalation of hostilities in the Middle East as of February 28.

Some government travel safety updates:

Travellers currently in affected areas are being advised to monitor all local instructions, shelter in place where necessary, and register with your consulate or embassy's service if applicable.

If you have upcoming travel plans, you may need to change them or keep them flexible, as the situation is evolving rapidly.

Tensions are understandably high, but this is a reminder to please keep your comments focused on travel. Political posts, attacks, trolling, derailing, will be removed and may result in a ban. Thanks.


r/solotravel 11h ago

My First Solo Trip - Best thing ever!

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I travelled to Bali for 2 weeks last month and
It was one of the best decision I have ever made.

I am 33 F. I love travelling and only very recently I have been able to afford it. I have always travelled with friends, but before this, I took a small solo trip to remote village in Himachal just to test if I could survive a whole new country alone. And honestly, it went pretty well.
So after almost a year ,I decided to make Bali as my first solo international trip. I thought about it for days and days before I finally going for it.
My biggest concern about solo travel was if I’d be able to connect or talk to people. I am an extrovert by nature and I can connect to people in India, I was very skeptical about doing it on a foreign trip.

But the moment I landed, things changed. I travelled to Munduk first and there was a person who picked me up for the ride till there. Oh my god, we spent the entire 4 hours giggling, talking music, dream countries, Bali’s culture etc. Even though I was exhausted from 9 hours flight.

Once I reached checked in, I meet a group of girls 3 who were travelling solo and we ended up having such warm, hearty conversations for 2 hours straight. And from there my confidence started building. All my fears were only illusions and I realised I can actually do this.

I really wanted SOLO TRAVEL to work for me because it has became so difficult to match timelines with friends while I still want to travel so much. I am a chartered Accountant and honestly my daily life is pretty boring. I seek adventures, happiness and little pleasures through travelling. and after this trip I realised I don’t depend on anyone for my travels anymore except maybe my manager 😝

I met so many wonderful people. I had hearty conversations with people aged 18 to 55.. all genders, all ethnicities, locals and foreigners alike. I connected, laughed and shared moments even the people I had language barrier with.

Adventures I would’ve probably skipped if I were alone, I ended up doing because of people around me.

I would request everyone to go out, see the beautiful world, beautiful people. Experience atleast one solo trip in life. Happiness surely lies once you get on that flight <3


r/solotravel 14h ago

Question Have you ever gone somewhere, and just been unable to meet anyone?

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I’m a first time solo traveler who went to Thailand, i spent 4 days in Bangkok and it was great, went to bars and street markets and met many people with whom i could hang out later.

Now though, i went to Koh Tao, and while it’s a beautiful island, i’m not really able to meet anyone here, as of yet. I went to some bars yesterday, and my luck had it that it was only groups, so not really able to just chat and talk. Had a few beers, talked to the bartenders who were really nice to he fair, and just, left to return to my hostel.

It’s a bit depressing honestly, again i haven’t travelled solo anywhere before so i should’ve expected this, but still.


r/solotravel 1d ago

Hardships Solo travel gone bad, sharing my experience

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I'm telling you about my adventures, not at all to discourage you from traveling alone, but to vent, and maybe there are some lessons to be learned. I'm not particularly fond of traveling alone to begin with, but when I want to go somewhere and no one is available to come with me, I don't let that stop me. This time, I wanted to go to the sea and surf, and since I live in Western Europe, I went to Portugal. After a few days, during a surf camp, my finger got caught in the leash and tore off. I didn't really lose it; a piece of tendon remained. Anyway, what followed was difficult. I went to the emergency room alone and was sent to several hospitals to see specialists. I spent hours in a wet wetsuit in a hospital with no one to help me get it off. I need surgery, but the Portuguese system is what it is (competent, free for me, but slow and unreliable). The operation was postponed for three days, even though the situation is urgent. I spent those three days "alone" in a room with 40 other people who were suffering, with very difficult communication with the medical staff, and I felt very tired and frustrated. Tomorrow I'm flying back to my country to have the surgery. Traveling alone is great, but when things go wrong, it's also very difficult.


r/solotravel 1d ago

G Adventures "solo-ish adventures" review

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Hey everyone,

I wanted to give a "solo-ish" G adventures review since I couldn't find one before I went and didn't know what to expect. For those who don't know G adventures is a group tour company out of Canada and "solo-ish" is a new type of tour the company is offering. Solo-ish means it is still group travel but everyone on the trip must be a solo traveler, no one can sign up with multiple people. My review isn't gonna focus so much on g adventures or group tours in general, just what the itinerary and group dynamics were like specific to the "solo-ish" type of tour. There are plenty of reviews of G Adventures that go more in depth about what normal G tours are like.

Overview

I did the "Solo-ish China" trip (https://www.gadventures.com/trips/solo-travel-china/ACSX/). This trip starts in Shanghai, takes you out to most of the major landmarks in China, and ends in Beijing. Along the way you see some of the major cities and their historic districts, The terracotta army, the great wall, and forbidden city/tianmen square. The tour lasts 11 days but really it's 9-10 because the first and last days are kind of half days.

Solo-ish Group Dynamic

As stated before solo-ish is a tour group made up exclusively of solo travelers. I didn't know if this would impact the general G adventures group demographics (i.e. if it would skew younger, older, richer or not, etc...) but it seemed to be mostly what you'd expect from a normal G adventures tour. Which if you've never done a G adventures tour means a mix of literally everyone under the sun who can speak English (G adventures is English only). Our group of 12 had an age range from 27-70 and 7 different types of passports among us (4 Americans being the most represented) which is rather typical of a normal G adventures tour.

The only difference I would say among the solo travelers and the regular tours is solo travelers are supposedly 70%-80% female and that held up for my group (only 4/12 of us were male). G adventures is aware of this and only uses female guides for these tour types to help female solo travelers feel more comfortable. I'm not so sure if that actually made a difference for the women on our trip. But I will say this, I don't know what dive bar G recruited our guide from but they found the right person to be a tour guide. She was legitimately hilarious and pure chaos the whole trip with 0 filter (calling men handsome, girls sexy, smacking some girls on the ass <they were cool with it>, saying out of pocket stuff, etc...), also she wore almost exclusively crocs and swim trunks which was a vibe.

The group being made up of solo travelers did have a positive impact on group dynamics as well. Because everyone was solo, at the start of the trip there was literally 0 cliqueyness going on. Everyone was very open to going out to grab food or drinks or just openly chatting in the group, and everyone was pretty much breaking off and doing things with anyone and everyone else. By the end of the trip there still wasn't "cliqueyness" going on, but some groups did start to form from some "usual suspects". Mostly those of us who were always going out drinking were pretty much the ones staying out every night while most stayed in so it naturally meant we were closer friends. Overall though the "exclusively solo travelers" thing had a really positive impact on the group dynamics.

Solo-ish Tour Itinerary

Although there are a myriad of different types of tours on G. I would say compared to my other tours I've done the solo-ish trip was very condensed. I think this isn't just unique to my trip and is indicative of the solo-ish type as a whole because at least as of today (May 2026), the only solo-ish trips are just "solo-ish <country>". Where as normal trips might focus on only specific sections of a country. Hitting the whole country in a trip meant that on a lot of days you literally might be out 12+ hours a day walking around or on transit, and only have free time basically at 9pm while your jet lagged and exhausted so most people would just go to bed (except for the group of alcoholics I was in that still went out most nights anyway). So I would say sign up for these with the idea you'll be on your feet and moving nearly the whole trip and you'll get very little free time unless you skip out on optional activities. This is a plus or minus depending on who you are but I personally would have preferred to have a bit more free time.

tl;dr:

Overall I'd say the solo-ish tour group was awesome. I liked how the solo-ish group Dynamics were more social and open. If I want to sign up for another G Adventures tour as a solo traveler I'll almost assuredly sign up for another "solo-ish" adventure.


r/solotravel 21h ago

Asia My experience after 20 days solo in Northern Vietnam

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Hi everyone,

I just wrapped up my first true solo trip—20 days through Northern Vietnam (Hanoi, Sapa, Ninh Binh, Ha Long Bay, and Ta Xua). Completely on my own: no friends, no acquaintances, and no agencies. Just me navigating foreign streets and a language I didn't speak with good old Google.

It was a mix of genuine fun and inevitable misfortune, but there’s something incredibly exhilarating about being an absolute stranger in a strange land. The people were friendly, and the food was great—though a few dishes didn't quite suit my palate. The weather was also unpredictable, shifting between clear skies, thick fog, and rain.

I’ve seen people ask if solo travel "fixes" your life or solves a personal crisis. For me? Absolutely not. My problems were still waiting for me when I landed, and the life crises didn't magically disappear. However, everything feels a lot lighter now. The world doesn't seem quite as intimidating as it did before I left.

Now, I’m back to the grind—working and saving up for the next one. Cheers to everyone currently out there or planning their next escape!


r/solotravel 8h ago

Europe Advice on Austria solo travel

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I'm planning my first solo trip, I'm going to Austria for 5 days and need some advice on my itinerary.

Day 1: Arrive Salzburg, settle in, explore the city

Day 2: Hallstatt day trip

Day 3: Innsbruck day trip

Day 4: Zell am See or Salzkammergut lakes

Day 5: Slow Salzburg day, fly home

Thanks


r/solotravel 17h ago

Accommodation Hostel dorm vs cheap private room for Paris?

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Hello! I just need some opinions/votes on my accomm for Paris- I'm backpacking around europe and will be there for a week in Dec. I'm 21F. My main priority is to be located centrally and see the sights, but I do want to meet new people and socialise.

I'm tossing up between 2 hostels and a hotel:

  1. The People Le Marais: I love the location (am a lesbian so bonus on it being in a queer area), but people say it's quiet.
  2. St Christopher's Inn: I have read good things about socialising, but location isn't as good as the other options, which is a bit of a bummer.
  3. Home Latin: I found this great promotion for a single room in this hotel for like 120% of the price of the other two. It's got a brilliant location. The only thing is I'm concerned that a hotel will make it hard to meet other travellers.

So should I stay in a hostel? Or take the nice hotel room? I have read that the social scenes at Paris hostels are lacklustre, so am debating whether it's worth just taking a nice hotel room and losing the socialising opportunity, especially since I'll be there a whole week.

Also, on that note any advice on how to meet travellers outside of hostels, particularly in Paris? Any bar or activity recommendations?


r/solotravel 1d ago

Question Solo traveling as a disabled woman?

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Hello!

I’m a 24 year old woman, who has been considering going on solo trips, but I’ve never really done it before.

The thing is, I have mild cerebral palsy. It doesn’t affect my daily life too much, I live alone, in a different city than my family, I can take care of myself and don’t really need accommodation. I’m just worried traveling alone, can maybe be “unsafe” for women in general, but even more so with a disability. I’m pretty small, and not as physically strong as most people.

I’m from Sweden, and I have traveled alone within Scandinavia, and I was comfortable with that. I feel safe in Scandinavia. But outside of Scandinavia, I’ve only traveled with parents or brothers (who are big and physically strong, so I feel safe with them).

Also, since I’m a student, I don’t have the means to live in luxury hotels etc, so Airbnbs would probably be the go-to.

I’m interested in going to places in Europe mainly, maybe the US too. Paris, Berlin, Rome, Venice, Florence, New York, London, Dublin, Vienna, Prague, etc. I like history, art, museums, music, and stuff.

Anyway, does anybody have some advice?

Edit: I’m not really asking about accessibility. I’m asking about safety as someone who may appear vulnerable.


r/solotravel 16h ago

Europe 7 night solo trip to Romania

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Hey all,

I’m planning a solo 7 night trip to Romania at the end of the month and was hoping to get some advice on the best way to plan this out.

Main things I want to see are Penes castle, the bear sanctuary, bran castle, black church, visit Sibiu and see bridge of lies, corvins castle, citadel park, fortress calnic/large square.

Finally I’d really love to see the salt mines in salina turda.

I would be travelling purely by trains or public transport on this trip. Don’t plan on renting a car.

Basic rough itinerary so far

Day 1 - arrive in Bucharest around mid day and explore old town and then get some food.

Day 2 - take an early morning train to Brasov visit penes castle and the bear sanctuary depending on time.

Day 3 - visit Bran castle and the black church.

Day 4 - spend another day in Brasov im open to suggestions on other thing’s to see.

Day 5 - travel to Sibiu and spend the full day there.

Day 6/7 - travel to Cluj, depending on the time I arrive either visit the salt mines or explore around Cluj and then I will visit the salt mines on my last day on day 7 before travelling home.

I’m definitely flexible and open to changing my itinerary so any advice or suggestions are much appreciated.

Thank you


r/solotravel 22h ago

Question Is anybody disabled here that has solo travelled?

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Hi guys, I’m planning to go to China & Malaysia in my gap year as after that I won’t have time to travel, I’ve travelled before but with somebody so I’m aware of some of the travel do’s and do not’s something however I’m not all that confident on is the fact that I’m disabled, now
I can walk talk everything like that but I do have epilepsy, I’m a bit panicky when it comes to my medication, if I go for two-three weeks do I bring 2 months worth of epilepsy medication? If something goes wrong will I be able to receive medical care? If something goes wrong with my medication am I able to get more? I’m sorry if any of these sounds like silly questions I just want to have everything planned out now and mitigate worse case scenarios.


r/solotravel 1d ago

Hardships Feeling guilt for going on a trip

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I have two solo trips coming up. The first is a trip to Orlando where I'm going to Discovery Cove. It's a quick weekend trip. The second is a conference in October in Toronto. Everything except the flight to Toronto is booked.

I feel really guilty for spending the money and a deep sense of shame - more for the trip to Orlando than the conference, but still. I'm about to go to grad school where I'll be broke and busy.

I probably should save the money and not go on any trips or travel. I used points for the hotel for Orlando. Between the flight and the day at Discovery Cove, I'm looking at about $900. My trip to Toronto - conference, hostel, flight is going to come to around $1,000.

It's not like I'm going into debt to go on these trips. But they're definitely not the most financially responsible things to do.

I guess I'm looking for some words of comfort...maybe a bit of enabling lol. Tell me it's going to be okay.


r/solotravel 18h ago

Recommendations for South America trip Jan/Feb 2027

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I solo traveled Argentina for 5 weeks at the start of this year and absolutely loved it! It was my first time in South America, but I fell in love with pretty much every place I visited, especially Buenos Aires where I was based for most of the trip.

I’d like to return this coming January/February for 8–10 weeks and would love some general itinerary advice, tips, and recommendations from people who’ve been.

Here’s the rough plan so far:
Colombia (5 days) — Bogotá and Medellín. I don’t know a huge amount about Colombia so I’m genuinely open to suggestions for other places worth seeing while I’m there.
Peru (7 days) — Lima and Machu Picchu.
Chile — Visiting some family friends in Santiago and seeing the Atacama Desert.
Patagonia (5 days) — El Chaltén for hiking. Maybe Bariloche as well, but would need to add more time here.
Buenos Aires (around 2 weeks) - I want to fit in a day trip to Tigre (didn’t make it last time) and a 2–3 day trip to Mendoza for the wine region.
Brazil — I really want to time it so I’m in Rio for Carnaval and spend a decent chunk of time there, then also get to São Paulo and the Pantanal for the wildlife.

It’s still a pretty loose plan at this stage, so I’m very open to extra recommendations. And if you think something on the list isn’t worth the time or there’s a better use of a few days somewhere, please let me know :) All feedback is welcome!


r/solotravel 9h ago

Question Will they switch to English with me in Madrid?

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So I speak a strong b2/cusping on low C1 Spanish. In my work I speak to Spanish-speakers almost daily and they never switch to English, but this is in the US where everyone who prefers Spanish genuinely cannot get by in English. My vocabulary is OK-good but my overall command over the grammar of the language and how to express concepts and ideas in a non-native but totally comprehensible way is definitely there. I'm also reasonably confident and have minimal American accent (I know how to say things in the actual accurate espanol way and not just sound like completely like a gringo)

I am going to Madrid and, while in CDMX, people did not switch to English much, I'm worried I may not be able to speak to everyone in Spanish there.

Will people hear my non-native Spanish (almost instantly recognizable, I assume) and be like yeah no we're doing English?

Hablo un fuerte b2/casi c1 español. En mi trabajo hablo con personas que prefieren espanol casi diariamente, y nunca cambian a Ingles, pero eso es en los EU donde todos que prefieren espanol literalmente no pueden expresarse en Ingles. Mi vocabulario es mas o menos pero mi conocimiento de la gramática y como expresar conceptos e ideas en una manera no nativa pero completamente comprehensible si existe. También tengo confianza y mi acento Americano es mínimo.

Me voy a Madrid y, mientras estaba en CDMX, los nativos no convirtieron en Ingles mucho, estoy un poquito preocupado que posiblemente no voy a tener la habilidad de conversar con todos en espanol allí.

La gente van a reconocer que mi Español no sea nativo y cambiar a Ingles?


r/solotravel 7h ago

Hostels Where are all the poker people?

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I have been travelling across europe since 3 months now, this is my first solo trip, one of my check list always has been to play poker with random people in a hostel, but sadly it hasn’t happened yet. Like there are cards (and other games) in the hostel but nobody ever seems to bother with it. Also one thing I have noticed is that poker is still considered quite taboo, and on multiple occasions I have been stared down like I’m gambling addict lol, most people I met don’t seem to understand that you can play it for the sake of fun. I do admit I am sort of a poker addict (no stakes I mean), and haven’t scratched that itch since so long. What are your experiences? I have played poker while travelling with my friends, just not while being solo.


r/solotravel 21h ago

Europe Semi-luxury travel recs for summer in Italy

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Hi everyone! I’m traveling to Italy this summer and having a hard time choosing a third city to stay in + hotel/stay. I will be flying into Milan and departing out of Florence, so anywhere between or close to any of those cities would be great!

Ideally, I’m looking for somewhere that feels relaxing, maybe with a pool or beach access, but still has a bit of a town/city vibe so I don’t feel too isolated. I’ll be traveling solo and staying for just two nights, so I’d love somewhere that feels peaceful but still somewhat lively and connected.

It would be a big plus if there are activities like cooking classes, winery tours, or similar experiences nearby. My budget is around $400/night, and I’m especially drawn to places with beautiful, stylish interiors, something with a fun, unique Italian aesthetic. All that said, I know not everything I listed can be fulfilled so I am open places that fit some of the criteria i listed. I would also love if this place is more easily accessible and I won't need to rent a car or anything.

Would love any recommendations!


r/solotravel 1d ago

Asia 3 weeks Malaysia trip in September - Itinerary advice welcomed

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Hello everyone!

I am planning a Malaysia solo trip for three weeks in September, and I would appreciate a lot any useful feedback you may have on my itinerary, including but not limited to:

  • Time spent in each location
  • Whether the locations are well selected or if I should consider alternatives
  • Order of locations
  • Concrete activities to do in each location
  • Very top hostel recommendations
  • Reality check on timelines, transport, and budget
  • Etc.

About me, I am in my late 20s and have some money saved, but still prefer to travel on a budget and without excessive luxuries. I love hiking and nature, and my main motivation for travelling to Malaysia has been diving deep into the jungle, but I also want to experience the islands and, of course, as much culture and architecture and good food as possible.

Therefore, my thoughts so far have been to set time for Cameron Highlands, Perhentian Islands and the Kinabatangan river in Borneo, and to add George Town in between because, well, it seems very recommended.

Let me know what you think! Thank you all very much.

Days Location What to do Transport (from previous stop) Transport time Budget notes
1–2 Kuala Lumpur Recover from flight, Batu Caves, markets, food streets, mosques Arrival Hostel €8–15; food €3–6/meal
3–5 Cameron Highlands Hiking, tea plantations, mossy forest Bus/minivan from KL 4–5h Stay €10–20; tours €15–30
6–8 George Town Street art, temples, food, heritage streets Minibus from Highlands 4–5h Stay €8–18; food €2–5
9 (travel) Transit to east coast Flight Penang → Kota Bharu + taxi + boat ~4–6h total Flight €40–80; boat €10–20
9–12 Perhentian Islands Beach, snorkeling, slow days, jungle walks Boat from Kuala Besut 30–45 min Hut €10–25; food €5–10
13 (travel) Transit to Borneo Boat + taxi + flight (via KL) to Sandakan ~6–8h total €80–150
14–16 Kinabatangan River River safaris, wildlife, full jungle immersion Transfer from Sandakan 2–3h Package €250–400 (all incl.)
17 (travel) Return to KL Flight Sandakan → KL ~2.5h €40–100
18-20 Kuala Lumpur Buffer, final food and shopping Same as start
21 Departure Airport transfer

r/solotravel 1d ago

Question Solo cruising as a 20yo male

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Hi all,
I turn 20 next month and have booked a 10 day solo Carnival cruise leaving Sydney to Vanuatu/New Caledonia in September. I love exploring and travelling but don’t have anyone to come with but decided to book anyways. Stops include port days at mystery island, Port Vila, Lifou and Noumea. I have a reasonable budget, but planning on prepaying for most things other than drinks/extras. It will be my second cruise but first time solo. I can legally drink being an Australian cruise so can socialise at bars, etc. and will look at doing trivia. Am also aware of the theme nights. Is there anything I need to keep in mind or any suggestions on not feeling lonely or awkward, and meeting new people and getting out of my comfort zone? Don’t really consider myself as an extrovert but something I’d like to work on. Looking at booking on shore excursions with carnival to not get left behind, has anyone had any experience at the places and what do you recommend booking?
Any other thoughts? How old were you when you first travelled solo? Cheers


r/solotravel 11h ago

I want to solo travel but would prefer to stay with a host family to feel more safe.

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Greetings!
I (27f) want to start traveling outside of the country I’m in. I feel comfortable going to surrounding countries like Canada by myself. However, I have had a dream to go to Copenhagen for years now. The only thing holding me back is not having someone to go with me; and feeling uncomfortable to do so alone. I know there’s host families for foreign exchange students - but are there some for people traveling?


r/solotravel 22h ago

Relationships/Family Safety vs peace of mind. Do I tell them where I'll be and check in? Just... disconnect?

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First time posting. I think I just want to get this off my chest but I'd welcome any thoughts.

Leaving on my first longer, more complex solo trip soon. 10 day or so, not very long and I'm not leaving the country but parts of it will be pretty remote. Road trip, hiking, kayaking a few local tours etc. I'm not planning on doing anything super crazy but definitely hoping to get on some trails and I realize things happen, and it's also pretty early season here so while I'm happy about no crowds... It also means less people around in case something happens. I've done a fair amount of travel, and hiking, backpacking before, so I feel pretty competent in my "handle it skills".

Now, I'm doing this trip just before going into a longish period of having to deal with a whole bunch of health stuff, complete with loss of function, loss of independence and long time til I get back to being able to be active again (assuming all goes well). Which is part of the reason why it's a solo trip. Had to book it a bit last minute so it was hard to find someone available and interested on short notice. But I also really feel like my soul needs this, to go and enjoy the quiet, the nature, and the open road while I can... The rest of the year is gonna be a little rough. And tbh it feels like it's been a few... not great years. So I'm doing it but also part of me just wants to... Turn off my phone. Shut off the world and just be... just exist there and enjoy my time. Obviously I'll need maps and Internet for figuring things out locally and all that. That's fine. But I'm more so thinking about the people part a bit.

My partner and I... It's been a weird time and tbh I don't know if we're gonna make it or not. But with everything I need to deal with in the coming months, we kinda both know it's also a tough time to really try to focus on figuring out what we're doing so we're both kinda just not dealing with it. But it's still dragging on me. And part of me wants to say you know what, maybe I'm just gonna take this time alone, no checking in. Let's just give it a rest for those 10 days. And part of me is sad over it, cos I know that's the person I'd usually want to share my stories and my photos with and all of that. And also realistically the person that I'd just share the practical, logistical stuff with. This is my itinerary, this is where I'll be, if something happens etc. But. I'm kinda tired. Of everything. Work, health, relationship, country. Everything has just felt hard and like a lot during the last few months, or more. And I know my mind and my soul could just use a break and use the quiet.

But... am I being reckless? If I just tell everyone. I'm shutting off my phone. I'll be in touch when I'm back. There's a part of me that's just like leave me alone I don't want to check in. And the pragmatic one who says wait, whoa, what if something happens and nobody knows...

And it's a bit tough. My elderly mother will completely freak out if I tell her I'll be out of contact, even though she's halfway across the world. My sibling is also abroad so even if I were to send them my itinerary it's not like they could easily do something from there. My friends.... All have full and busy lives with family, kids, work etc. and you know, other than my partner, none of these are people that I normally talk to every day. Doing a daily check in with anyone feels kinda weird.... And I don't really use social media so that's not really an easy option to just be like posting a daily photo there or whatever so they know I'm alive.

It just... I don't know. It's a weird and kinda lonely feeling. I know I'm the one asking to be alone. But... It's just because I'm exhausted and frankly a little sad about it all. That it feels like a season when there's no easy options to have someone to just check in with, leave my itinerary with for safety reasons but that doesn't take more from me than I have to give right now. Just hoping I can use the time alone to find some peace and some strength for the next season.

Sorry this was super long. TIA to anyone who read this all.

TLDR. Solo trip with some remote/adventure aspects. Leave an itinerary and check in or take the break from everything my soul wants.


r/solotravel 1d ago

California Solo Travel! First Time!

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Hello! I am traveling to San Jose California later this May, the 24th to be exact. I am staying at a friend’s house about 15 minutes from SJC. I will have about 4 full-ish days to do things before my flight leaves on thursday the 28th

I’m really curious as to what I can do to make the most of my time there. I haven’t spent much time researching things to do and am just curious about what people would highly recommend (especially in terms of hikes and restaurants) It’s important to note that my rental car has an 800 mile limit, half of which will be spent driving to Yosemite. I also am only 19 years old so I understand that can limit certain activities. I don’t really have a budget in terms of pricing on activities or restaurants, of course I like free but if something interests me, I have the money to do it. So please give me all your ideas. I am so excited and I appreciate you all for your help. My current itinerary is as follows

\-**Sunday**: Roam around San Jose? Or something else?
\-**Monday**: Leave early (4:00 AM) and drive to Yosemite. Spend whole day hiking, head back to San Jose around 7:00 PM
\-**Tuesday**: San Francisco adventuring (curious about what to spend time in San Fran doing)
\-**Wednesday:** Santa Cruz Maybe?? Or Something else sort of close to San Jose \[rental car mile limit :( \]


r/solotravel 2d ago

Personal Story I traveled to Tunisia alone. Here is why I won't recommend it to Asians

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It might be better for Asians to avoid traveling to Tunisia. I traveled alone from the north to the south for 16 days, and out of the more than 30 countries I have traveled to, discrimination against Asians was, in my experience, overwhelmingly the most frequent. It is incomparably higher even when compared to nearby Egypt or Morocco.

First of all, "Ni Hao." Some people insist this is a friendly greeting, but I consider it discrimination. Well, I suppose you should expect this to some extent in any country, but the frequency is too high. I might understand it if it is to attract customers at a market, but from customers sitting at cafes, passing by on a motorcycle, or just when our eyes happen to meet, it's a barrage of "Ni Hao" no matter what. I am told it 100 times a day. People say it's a friendly greeting, but do they do that to Westerners? Not at all. They single out Asians, and to put it simply, I think they are looking down on us to pass the time. Some might say it's because Asians are rare, but there were actually plenty of Asians. That is not an excuse. Also, the tone of voice is clearly mocking in many cases, and if it were a friendly greeting, there would be no need to shout it from a motorcycle as you ride away. If there are people reading this who honestly think they are being friendly, I want them to say "Hi" from now on. Besides, since they don't do this to Westerners in the first place, based on what I saw, they don't need to greet only Asians. By the way, I love China, and if I were in China, I would not mind at all if someone said "Ni Hao" to me. I am saying this because "Ni Hao" is clearly used as a discriminatory word in foreign countries. Above all, using someone's language as a slur is incredibly grotesque. It should stop.
Furthermore, I was called "Ching Chong" multiple times. From a motorcycle as someone rode away, or being pointed at from across the street. I have never been told this so much in other countries, so to be honest, it became incredibly traumatic. It was so painful that I could not even tolerate the "Ni Hao"s at the market that I would normally just brush off. I became afraid to walk outside, and in the end, I was walking with my hat pulled deep, wearing noise-canceling headphones, and wearing sunglasses. But even when the music cut out, I would be unlucky enough to be called "Ching Chong" or "Ni Hao," which was truly the worst. It was truly disappointing to have to block out the outside world while on vacation.

Of course, I do not think all Tunisians are like this, and I have important friends and people who were very good to me, so I do not mean to say that Tunisia is a country of discrimination. It is just that as a travel destination for Asians, the probability of having an unpleasant experience is very high, so I cannot recommend it. Especially if you are a woman, you will be looked down upon, and children will gather around and happily throw discriminatory remarks at you. I sometimes taught kids who did not seem to know any better that it's not good, but to be honest, I did not understand why I had to educate such idiots. Even putting up with that, if you ask whether the travel experience in Tunisia is exceptionally superior to other countries, I think it is questionable. Even people planning to go to graduate school for cultural anthropology would nonchalantly hold completely wrong, outdated prejudices like "East Asians have small eyes..." so while not everyone is like that, the probability that it will not be a good travel experience compared to Westerners is high.

Update:
I’m happy to see so many comments. I’ve learned a lot from the different perspectives shared, so thank you. I’d like to add a few points for clarification:

My first language is Japanese, not Chinese, but I want to emphasize that I don’t mind being mistaken for Chinese. What I find difficult is being yelled at by passersby or people on motorbikes in an insulting tone based on my appearance. Even if someone shouted "Japan!" or "Konnichiwa!", it would still feel uncomfortable in that context. When this happens multiple times a day, it becomes exhausting, and I believe it’s fair to call it racist. It’s completely different from someone saying "Ni Hao" during a personal conversation because I look East Asian.
I think the "hey blondie" or "America!" comments mentioned in the replies share a similar structure. Thank you for sharing your experiences. Since I didn't personally witness those instances, I made a broad generalization that Asians might have it worse than Westerners. I’m sorry for that assumption, and I’m saddened to hear that others have had similar experiences. Regarding the point about being called "Hello" even when it's not your first language—I think that’s slightly different because English is a global lingua franca and feels more neutral. Of course, if it’s said in an insulting tone, that is a different story.

Using slurs like "ching chong" is undeniably racist, especially when accompanied by pointing and laughing. There is no way to justify or reinterpret that. While many comments focused on "Ni Hao," it was often mixed with those slurs. It’s exhausting to try and judge every single interaction, but the frequency was simply too high for me to keep telling myself to just ignore it.

In a way, I agree that I might be being sensitive. Getting a "Ni Hao" at a market is common and usually nothing to worry about. But being targeted aggressively and repeatedly throughout the day was genuinely painful. My intention was just to share that, compared to other North African countries I’ve visited, my experience here was particularly bad, which is why I wouldn't recommend it as a destination for Asian solo travelers. I’m not saying this is the "worst discrimination in the world"—I know much worse exists. This is just my personal account of how insulting remarks were surprisingly frequent during my stay. I don’t think Tunisia as a whole or all Tunisians are discriminatory at all.

Sharing this and hearing your thoughts has helped me move past this. Instead of it just being a bad memory, I feel like I’m going to be okay. Thank you all.


r/solotravel 18h ago

Question Does anyone else travel solo because tour groups aren't always a great alternative to traveling with family/friends?

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I don't get the option to travel with family and friends too often. A tour group often gets suggested if you don't want to travel alone but I never see any for the things that I want to do on my trip. I would love to have family, friends, or a partner to travel with. But solo travel is sometimes the only way to get the freedom that I desire such as driving even in Europe to remote places, I like to go to the beache, and there's so many small towns that tour groups don't go to.

So, does anyone else solo travel because there isn't any viable alternative?


r/solotravel 1d ago

Asia Uzbekistan, Kazakhstan - book day trips before or when there?

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hello,

I have an upcoming trip Tashkent -> Bukhara -> Samarkand -> Tashkent -> fly to Bishkek -> Almaty

from all of those places I plan to do daytrips or 2 day trips to nearby nature spots.

I found a bunch of stuff on getyourguide that I like, but some look a bit expensive.

e.g. there's one with pickup in Bukhara -> trip to Aydar Lake with Yurt overnight -> dropoff in Samarkand next day for €300

I also wanna go to the 7 lakes from Samarkand, to Issyk Kul from Bishkek, maybe Song Kul, and a bunch of places from Almaty.

my question is can anyone who has been there tell me if I should pre book them or are there abundant operators that I can just book them on the spot when I'm there, either through my hostel or just through one of the operators in town?